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Re: Learning to detach job #2389300 09/29/13 09:22 PM
Joined: Aug 2013 Posts: 1,095 U.S. A Ambivalent Member
Ambivalent Member A Joined: Aug 2013 Posts: 1,095 U.S.	Been reading the thread. I have a friend who went through this. Her solution was to put the things she wanted on the same list as things he didn't want, and made another list of the things he truly values coupled with things she really didn't care about. It made it difficult for her stbex to demand things that he knew would hurt her or he knew she really loved. These were then given to the attorney's and they handled it. This way it can be not be such a bone of contention. Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay Jan 2014...Let go of rope! God grant me the serenity...

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Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/20/13 06:43 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/20/13 07:06 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	09/20/13 07:21 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/20/13 10:26 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	09/21/13 12:36 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/21/13 08:31 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/23/13 08:06 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Ab Fab	09/23/13 02:26 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/23/13 03:09 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/26/13 05:13 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	09/26/13 07:28 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/26/13 07:38 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/29/13 03:30 AM
Re: Learning to detach	MrBond	09/29/13 08:33 AM
Re: Learning to detach	beatrice	09/29/13 09:00 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/29/13 12:20 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	09/29/13 12:35 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Ambivalent	09/29/13 09:22 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/30/13 01:47 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/30/13 02:25 AM
Re: Learning to detach	job	09/30/13 11:48 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/30/13 04:13 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Wonka	09/30/13 04:16 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/30/13 04:26 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	09/30/13 06:23 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/02/13 07:43 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/02/13 08:10 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Wonka	10/02/13 08:11 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/02/13 08:26 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/02/13 08:31 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/02/13 08:58 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/02/13 09:27 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/02/13 10:29 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Wonka	10/03/13 12:19 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/03/13 09:16 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Wonka	10/03/13 10:42 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/04/13 06:12 AM
Re: Learning to detach	willbwell	10/04/13 10:48 AM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/04/13 12:03 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Wonka	10/04/13 03:35 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/04/13 04:44 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/04/13 07:34 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/05/13 02:18 AM
Re: Learning to detach	RosaLinda	10/06/13 02:43 PM
Re: Learning to detach	willbwell	10/07/13 07:10 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/07/13 10:12 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/08/13 12:04 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/09/13 07:34 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/12/13 10:19 PM
Re: Learning to detach	makingmagic	10/12/13 10:38 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/12/13 10:45 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/12/13 10:49 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/12/13 10:57 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/12/13 11:02 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/12/13 11:15 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/12/13 11:46 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/12/13 11:53 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/13/13 01:47 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/13/13 03:46 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Portia	10/13/13 07:05 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/14/13 06:14 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/14/13 06:22 AM
Re: Learning to detach	willbwell	10/14/13 11:22 AM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/14/13 12:56 PM
Re: Learning to detach	kml	10/14/13 03:43 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/14/13 04:27 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/15/13 12:31 AM
Re: Learning to detach	willbwell	10/15/13 11:06 AM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/15/13 12:09 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/15/13 02:36 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/15/13 05:15 PM
Re: Learning to detach	makingmagic	10/15/13 05:21 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/15/13 06:26 PM
Re: Learning to detach	RosaLinda	10/15/13 07:06 PM
Re: Learning to detach	kml	10/15/13 07:08 PM
Re: Learning to detach	LoisB	10/15/13 07:43 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/15/13 08:09 PM
Re: Learning to detach	LoisB	10/15/13 08:15 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/15/13 09:33 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/15/13 10:19 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/15/13 11:55 PM
Re: Learning to detach	willbwell	10/16/13 10:39 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/16/13 04:20 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/17/13 03:06 AM
Re: Learning to detach	willbwell	10/17/13 09:27 AM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/17/13 11:34 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/17/13 06:18 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/17/13 06:32 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/18/13 05:32 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Pudmuddle	10/18/13 05:58 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Pudmuddle	10/18/13 06:00 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/18/13 06:13 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Pudmuddle	10/18/13 06:34 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/18/13 07:04 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/18/13 07:42 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/18/13 08:02 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Tina825	10/18/13 08:27 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Pudmuddle	10/18/13 08:35 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/18/13 09:25 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/18/13 11:19 PM
Re: Learning to detach	LoisB	10/18/13 11:42 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/19/13 12:09 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/19/13 12:53 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Tina825	10/19/13 11:16 AM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/19/13 03:41 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Tina825	10/19/13 11:13 PM
Re: Learning to detach	RosaLinda	10/20/13 02:41 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Tina825	10/20/13 05:12 PM
Re: Learning to detach	Whiterose	10/20/13 05:55 PM
Re: Learning to detach	job	10/13/13 12:54 PM

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