T, I hope you still feel strong – it must be a rough time! Keep your track – you are doing good!
Originally Posted By: Labug
F, why would it matter if the letter doesn't sound like her? Wouldn't you get help with something this important just like T is. I know I've come here often for help with communication. Everything is not nefarious.
Labug, Of course I would seek advice and help and of course everything is not nefarious (nice word by the way – had to look it up ) Everybody is doing that – and should! In my somewhat inexperienced opinion, Ts wife have shown rather threatening behavior several times. She has tried to gain control by this. I read her words as somewhat different and thereby thought this was evidence of her being beyond threatening this time. With her history (sorry for attacking your W, T!) a lot of all this could be BS but if she is having counseling it properly isn’t. I get your points and agree to them but I also do believe that Ts Ws history in communication should be taken into consideration every time she states something. I hope I am making sense!
T & Bug, all the best – you are in my thoughts and prayers! F
Hi F, I'm doing really good actually.
I had to look up nefarious too
I think there is a lot that could be read from what W sends to me. As labug has pointed out many times is does me no good to try and decode this as it's all guess work at best. I don't think her counselling has started yet.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14