NEW LIFE / NEW ME - TAKING OFF!

[Fartiltre]

Weekend is almost gone and tomorrow Ds leave once again. We have talked a little about “missing” today and I have told them that this is completely understandable and all right.
I have also promised D6 to contact W and ask if she can stay here from Tuesday till Wednesday

It has been a nice weekend! I have been a little too tired properly because I have slept too little and because of the medication. I still feel I am getting better and better at this and I feel my love for the kids grow every time I see them.

That’s a nice feeling these days.

There has been no contact with W since the text yesterday. (Crazy sentence when trying to be dim but that’s the case!)

With the calendar/exchangeserver-thing solved I am considering sending W an email. It is hard to translate but I have tried. It is properly a little nicer in my native than it comes out in English.

Hey

I hope you had a nice weekend.
D6 has talked a little about missing a few times but otherwise she has been laughing and enjoying. She would like for me to pick her up Tuesday and I have promised her to talk to you about it. If it is OK with you I will do it and then drop her off at school Wednesday morning. You can just put some clothing in her schoolbag.
She has complained about some trousers and I have told her to talk to you about it. I did that the last time as well but it seems like she forgot.


I need to follow up on a few subjects and they follow below:

I regards of our talk about Ds appointments it is my understanding that we have agreed upon not booking anything in each other’s time without this being accepted.
Furthermore I understood that you will move your exchange account in nearest future.

I will adjust child support according to the mail from XX
I have deducted half the heating bill and thereby X from child support Y and I will transfer the difference.
Thereby I will also pay the bill.
If you disagree then let me know.

I have mailed you a couple of time regarding some items of mine that you have – will you please look into this soon?

Last a little about Christmas and New Year
We haven’t discussed this and it is properly best done on the phone but I will give you my thought and then we can discuss it next time we talk. I would like this clarified rather quickly.
I would like for the Ds and S10 to celebrate Christmas every second year and that means it is my hope that Ds can stay at my place for Christmas this year and at your for New Year. Next year we change.
I don’t believe switching on Christmas day (24) and first Christmas day(25) is good for the children.

S10 is home from 20.december till 27.december – properly with a short stay at XW1 since she would like to see him.

Ds are supposed to be at my place from 18. December, but if you would like to see then a day before Christmas that’s totally understandable and we can work it out so they can stay at your place 22. And/or 23. December.

We can switch on 2. Christmas day (26). That will give you a birthday morning every second year and a birthday evening every second year. We can also do the switch on 3. Christmas day (27) – that will give you a full birthday every second year.

According to plans we switch on 1. January. If you have plans we can work something out and if you would like for me to have them, just let me know.

Just my thoughts!

Talk to you soon!

F