What I have always used as my guide in dealing with my ex-h, his ex-w when we were together, etc. is the memory of my best friend not inviting her father to her wedding because she didn't want the stress of her parents not getting along - and they had been divorced for 20 years! I cannot imagine my child being in that situation and having to make such a choice. It is up to us to separate our adult relationship from our parenting relationship in a D situation.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
