Regardless of what your H says, keep DBing and changing what you need to change. I know when I was WAW and had an A I was really upset that my H suddenly decided to change and try to give me what I had been asking for for many years. I felt it was too late, I was mad that I was finally happy again and now he was becoming a better H. It wasn't too late, it took us a long time to work through our problems but we did. The biggest thing that helped was when we were each able to understand our own roles instead of focusing on each others.


M 46
H 44
D 12 S 8
M 9 T 11
BD 2/15/13
"Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13
Agree we are 'healing' 7/13
Definitely Piecing 9/13