This is still difficult for me but I thank you for the jolt - sometimes it is necessary for me to refocus. I know I cannot HELP or FIX him. Only God and he can do that. It is just that I have been a FIXER, and now I have to learn to just let it go. But I will say this - I wish no harm or hurt or pain for my spouse. I think that is what is most difficult.
I have plans for the morning and early afternoon, so that will get me to refocus. And I did enjoy myself with my girlfriend and her mom last night - I have not eaten like that since my H left. A Seafood fest! and great company and conversation. I am so grateful for my friends, I just didn't want to be a bother.
I have also signed up for a book club - can you believe it! I never done on of these before, but looking forward to exploring it. Have a good morning.
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years
