That's the spirit TTD. S13 and I started getting into the habit of having alternate plans now for Sundays just in case my H doesn't show up - although so far he's pretty good at giving advance notice that he won't be.
Mine texted last night asking if I'd mind picking him up from the local coffee shop this morning after his "friend" drops him off and dropping him at his flat later this afternoon as he's bought himself a fire box to store his birth certificate, passport, etc in and it's "kinda heavy and awkward to carry after a while". Don't know why the friend can't drop him and the box at the flat, or take him there and let him drop the box off, before dropping him at the coffee shop (she isn't allowed to drop him off at my house for obvious reasons) but for gas money, I'm going to do it. Gotta try and stay friends with H, if nothing else for now. Although not doing it would be a 180 .
Hope you have a great day whatever you end up doing!
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks