OK. Her car was at her place. Surprised the heck out of me, frankly.
Conclusion? Four distinct possibilities:
1) I have miscalculated, and they are merely "just friends". 2) She (and/or he) is taking the moral highroad and are saving the consummation of the PA until the D is final, or at least until it is further along. 3)They have already consummated it, and now one of them has decided to break it off already. 4) Some other scenario I can't get my head around.
I realize that all of this conjecture and spying on my part violates several primary rules of DBing; namely I need to quit trying to apply logic to the MLC mind; I need to let go and detach; I need to quit snooping.
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13