I responded before I got any advice... So maybe not the best response,

Me: U definitely deserve a vacation. I could use a vacation too

We'll see how it goes. Given our recent communication, I don't feel like I am pursuing too much, but I could be. (Recall that she text me on Tuesday looking for sex.)

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)