Been reading this thread...

Sounds like you need a vacation, is a bit too much. She just said that.

Simple things like, a vacation...s I g h ...

or

yeah, that'd be nice ...

Nothing that has you entering her life uninvited. Something very short and sweet..

Just you talking about taking her to D L says to me, you are still trying to fix things. Just let her vent.

If she wants to go somewhere, she'll tell you.

I see a lot of dancing going on here. The pursuit and distance thing.

Try being just a tad bit dimmer. A little more elusive. Have either of you started I.C.?

Do you ever do anything other than go to dinner or have drinks? What new activities have you tried? What are you doing to move forward, and give her space to miss you?


Formerly Workinprogress
H :55
M :over 29 yrs.
Together : 33
D : college
D : adult
BD and left : May 2013
Separated
Experimenting/Replay

Jan 2014...Let go of rope!


God grant me the serenity...