I forgot to mention. We are/were planning on going on a Disney cruise in December. Tomorrow is the day the payment is due. Friday morning she was asking me if we should even book the trip given the situation. I told her we would talk about it over the weekend. Well, don't know if we will talk at all or if she is just going to let it slide and not pay/go on the trip (we were going to put it on her card and pay it off with our end of year bonus). She was really looking forward to it now I just don't know. If she doesn't book it on her card, it will be a sign of a lack of confidence in the direction of this marriage for sure. I don't know if I should even try to bring it up given the state she is in (she is still out of the house journaling/getting away from the situation (probably with OM too)). I will see how she is when she comes back and will play it by ear. I really do want to go on this trip and I don't want to break my daughter's heart by telling her we are not going. Just another variable in the whole mess of things...
