So apparently he came by after work and retrieved only a few things. He told me to have a good weekend and that he was not interested in talking about our relationship because we are just not compatible (after 15 years together???).
All WAS's say stuff like that, remember Sandi's rule about not believing anything they say, it's totally appropriate at times like that.
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Is this to resolve any guilt he may have? What are people's thoughts on a WAS use of "incompatibility" as a reason for them to leave when they are storming all over the place?
Basically you're asking us what he's thinking, and the answer is we don't know and neither do you, and we cannot hope to know because he doesn't know either. WAS's will frequently say something one day and then say the complete opposite the next. They are not lying, they really are in that much confusion that their thoughts can change drastically in a short amount of time. Don't wrestle with trying to figure him out, focus your energy on you instead.
