As I write this, my W is at a Sports Bar watching a football game with her OM. She has not told me about him, does not know that i have found out, and denies that the D has anything do with another man.

I have a very strong urge to drive out and spy, or even to buy myself a beer and have a seat with them. Just to let her know that I know.

I am still on moderation on this site which seems absolutely insane, if not cruel. What do I need to do, improve my grammar?

I need support now. Not tomorrow morning.


Me:52
Wife:49
Married 19 years
Son:16
Daughter:14
Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013
Wife moved out 2Jun13

W filed for D 22Sep13