Ok, I know about the OM. She has not told me.

Question:
Do I mention I know about him, or wait for her to tell me?

She insists that she is not leaving for another man. That, "this D is not about that." Now that I know she is lying to me or to herself, should I bring it up?

Me:52
Wife:49
Married 19 years
Son:16
Daughter:14
Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013
Wife moved out 2Jun13

W filed for D 22Sep13