So I got the following text from w.

W: Me relax??? That's funny. The only time u have known me to relax is when we were on vacation. That's what I need... A vacation

I could validate with "sounds like you need a vacation" lol

Actually she may be hinting that she would like me to take her someplace. She always needed at least a mini getaway every few months to keep sane. But it doesn't seem like she could take the time right now with her job. We do have a lot of money in flight credit (recall canceled Vegas trip) so it would cost very little in "new" money to go somewhere. Based on recent conversations I think she is ready to spend extended time with me if she could take it off work... Maybe I should take her to Disneyland... The happiest place on earth...


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)