Okay so I got two texts from the STBX right before my camping trip yesterday. (It was just an overnight thing, had a great time.) I didn't reply then but replying now:
Originally Posted By: STBX
I dropped the Restraining Order only to allow us to communicate regarding the settlement of our dissolution outside of court. [her paralegal] has contacted [my lawyer] this week to try to set up a meeting of which he has refused. he states this can sit on his desk until i pay you at least [$x]. im on full disability now not working and have 0 money now [left]. You seem to be communicating with me as to lighting a candle in church etc. I need to know where you are at regarding the settlement of this dissolution. What will it take to get this reasonably settled? Please let's discuss this asap. Thank you.
then an hour later...
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[lefty] you told me the only reason you hired an attorney was because of the restraining order. It's gone now. Can we please just settle this like civilized mature adults between us? I could hire an attorney too but that will only take away precious funds away from whatever money it is that you apparently want from me? I am really confused about what's going on here.
How should I reply? I have not talked to my L since our last court date and my settlement offer has not changed. Need your help!
