Thanks Jon. I hope that's what it is. When I started dating H I was very tough and nonchalant. I had my own business, my own friends, and never ever pursued him. He did a lot of work to get me.
In the last few years, I think those were the major changes: I became a stay at home mom and needy, insecure, and cranky. I think all those things turned him off. Maybe my indifference makes him remember of the old me? Not sure.
