Looking for New Options If H Wants Divorce

[MyNewStrength]

Okay. I had very busy day at work yesterday after a cry before heading in. But I got to work, that is the small step. Normally, I would have called in, but I went in after a cry. When I got home, I spoke to the WAS. He wanted me to know he stopped by the house and picked up a few dirty clothes and mail. Wanted to make sure he was in and out in 5 minutes. But I did notice that he spent time outside because of the screen doors were not closed and he also resealed the box on his anniversary present I bought (so must have looked at it) and he told me he checked the sprinkler system and reset it for the fall. He wanted to make sure that I was okay and wanted to know if he received any bills because he did not find them. Well that is strange because all of his bills he gets online.

And then he apologizes for the email he sent earlier and said that he didn't mean it but he was initially very angry. I did see it at work (it was in my junk folder since I blocked it- yes, I know, I looked). In the email, he accused me of locking him out of the house, which I did not. Then he threatened me with having his lawyer file an injunction for keeping him out of the house. So I sent him a response and asked him if he used the keypad. He said no.

So apparently he came by after work and retrieved only a few things. He told me to have a good weekend and that he was not interested in talking about our relationship because we are just not compatible (after 15 years together???). He says he wants the "best" for me.

Is this to resolve any guilt he may have? What are people's thoughts on a WAS use of "incompatibility" as a reason for them to leave when they are storming all over the place?