THX, sorry you're here, but you're doing pretty well all things considered. I've been at this for ~7 mos now and what you'll find eventually is that DBing is more about saving ourselves than our marriages. Yes, the stats are bleak and yes it seems that women are less likely to come back than men, but the sooner you GAL, work on your PMA and 180s, the sooner you'll feel better about everything. This is really the key here, b/c moping around feeling sorry for ourselves is not attractive - whether for our W's or for a new R down the line. Just imagine how much worse everything would be if you were calling your W every day crying for her to come back. You probably wouldn't be able to function. So, the key here is that yeah you may save your M, but DBing is actually about more than that. Nonetheless, I think you're doing great! Bust on!
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"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
