I was getting ready to take S1 to the beach when H says, "are you going to get mad if I go do my own thing?", meaning, going to chat with OW online at a coffee shop. Usually I would throw a fit.
I said, no, because I made some decisions of my own too.
He lingered, staring at me, "what decisions?"
Me, "to move on too"
I said this with a straight face, without crying, which is completely new for him. He didn't move.
I left the room to continue packing for S1. He followed me and said, "so that means we won't do any more counseling?"
And I said, "if you want to, we will. It's up to you"
Then he kept lingering and taking a while to leave, staring at me and the baby.
