Seemed to me more like the C was pressuring her to do things more than you were.

I didn't see any negative response from her on what you were doing. I do believe one has to create the core connection before working on any problems. But again that's my viewpoint.

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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