You guys are really distorted when you arrive at a point that you honestly believe kissing your wife is tantamount to molestation.
You heap so much self-guilt on yourselves that I guarantee you, no woman would want such a feeble, self-doubting man so devoid of self-confidence and direction.
And 8k posts, my God, what in the world do you have time to do outside of posting here? Are you even still married?
The effect of my actions were realized by significantly more contact from my wife yesterday evening which I find very positive.
Me: 46 Ex: 38 Married: 10 Together: 12 No Children Separated (again): 09/06/13 Divorced: 02/27/15