The boundary is the way she spoke to me. I haven't decided on the garage yet, but that's probably a good plan.
However, nothing will happen until she speaks respectfully. It was a big problem in our marriage so this is a 180 for me to basically stop the conversation when she is rude. Its also the first time I've really stood up to her since BD, so it feels good! I'm not angry or looking for revenge, just calmly stated my case.
I'm working on the same thing too. I just let my W walk all over me before and even more after BD. This has to stop. What exactly did you tell your W when she acts up?
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
