I have them ALL the time! In the morning when doing lunchboxes and the codependency hits me, when D6 is sad and her hurt hits me, when I have put the children to sleep and I am alone downstairs and the missing love hits me, when I have good times and bad times, when new stuff happens....just all the time!
I think this is totally normal and we just have to welcome these thoughts. They will disappear but that will take a loooong time.
Take care and enjoy the weekend!
F
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.