Great evening with the kids! These Fridays with all of them is a real joy.

I went to see the doctor this morning and they won’t drain the inflammation. If this should be done they will have to cut me open and that means hospital and surgery (light but still full anesthesia) once again. So Monday they will look at me again. I want this gone! It’s painful and I can’t do the things I normally can.
S10 caught the flu last night so I picked him up at 9AM and took the day off with him and picked up Ds earlier. I will try to do this more often if possible!

One little incident regarding W.
I called her number by mistake at 16.54 and didn’t realize it before her VM started and then I hung up.

She called back at 17:27, 17:29, 17:32, 17:45, 19:04, 19:57 and 20:31

I didn’t answer any of these calls. At first not on purpose but then I thought about it. Children are here so it can’t be that important and I just left the phone ringing.

After her call at 20.31 I was about to send her a text, but while writing I received a text from her “I can see that you have called today. I have tried on cell and landline since. What was it..? Have a nice evening”

I replied at 22.37: “Nothing important…D6 got an invitation to a birthday on the 6.10 from 10 – 13. I just thought it would be nice for you to put this in your calendar”


This incident made me recall several quarrels (nothing major) we have had during a long time about her not bringing her phone or not answering it. I know it isn’t nice but even though this wasn’t planned and just happened it didn’t made me feel bad at all. I am happy that I in fact got an invite today and therefore could send the last text but at the same time I have had quality time with my children and didn’t let the phone interrupt us. A friend also called and I didn’t answer that call as well.


Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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