I see. "Love must be Tough" is on order and shipped today, actually. I'll be delving into it as soon as I can.

So, I'm making my expectationas known, but not enforcing them through continual prodding and aggitating? I get that.

This would also allow me to maintain a "normal" environment for my kids and have the benefit of continuing with my 180's, DBing and self improvement in the presence of W. That's also beneficial.

Vince B
M=10 yrs T=13 yrs
M45 / H 44
2 Boys 5 & 8
D Day: 7/16/13