Nero,

I live in an English village. Walk, garden, and eat pastries with cream and chips. Cannot knit.

The problem with fantasies is the line between RL and fantasy. That line has become so blurred with my ex that he cant tell the difference anymore. he is running so hard, but fails to see that the problem is him. My problem is dealing with the fall out of his fantasy.

Bring on the cake...

Rosa - I hope you enjoyed your time in the UK. I'm so sorry that you got caught up in your friends problems. I have made two long haul trips to stay with friends in the past, and on both occasions their lives seemed to take over the vacation. At least it gave you some distractions, and some sight-seeing.
Have you now recovered from your eye surgery?