I definitely will have to let W know that what she is doing is unacceptable and I won't participate in an open marriage. Then what?
If I'm not moving out, I'll still be allowing her R with OM to continue in my presence. Right?
It's very confusing to consider all of this. The advice I've received encourages me to tell W I won't stand for her A and won't be in an open marriage, yet I'm still going to be right there with her A right in my face!
Is this where the "real" DBing begins? Puting the 37 rules into action for as long as W stays in the house?
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13
