One last thing; I put an add on CL to rent a room since I'm alone in a 4,000' house & she is offering no sign of moving back in. The extra cash would be gravy, though it isn't necessary.

Does that also send the wrong signal?

I'm thinking that it does.

Me: 46
Ex: 38
Married: 10
Together: 12
No Children
Separated (again): 09/06/13
Divorced: 02/27/15