Sounds advice MrBond.

Methinks I need to chill.

She did text me & thank me for the massage & said she will see me at the therapist this afternoon.

Also, the therapist said by not showing, I send the wrong message. She said the process is going to be slow going as the W needs to rebuild trust in me.

I just need to chill & focus on improving myself, which is very difficult because I am very uncomfortable not being in control of situations.


Me: 46
Ex: 38
Married: 10
Together: 12
No Children
Separated (again): 09/06/13
Divorced: 02/27/15