Wife moved out, won't come back home

[newton0]

Really thinking on bailing on the therapy session today. I feel like I am chasing my tail like a foolish dog; making all the effort while she sits there 'checked out'.

She doesn't seem to know what exactly she wants, particularly with regard to our marriage/relationship, and for the last 3 sessions we've made zero forward progress.

She can't seem to decide if she wants to work on the marriage or if there is hope (though I *think* she said she thought so when the therapist asked).

She doesn't want to do anything with me and what communication we have is all topical.

How difficult would it have been for her to text me after her massage to say 'thanks'?

[censored] this.