Devastated

[sweetbabyred]

I agree with the others. Decide what you want to do and don't let anyone else try to change your mind.

Perhaps you could find someone younger, prettier, etc. But at a certain point you need to make a choice and a commitment and be happy with your choice.

I think that once you get married, you chose that person for life and there is no use in wondering if you could have found someone different/better. You can never be happy if you're always second guessing yourself.

I'll cut my rant short, but just do what you feel you need to do. People want us to be happy and they want it to happen quickly. Not many people are willing to put in the effort to discover what will truly make them happy long term.