Yes, that all sounds good. Just communicate with her like you're a "friendly neighbor". Don't help with the D, but don't block it either. Sounds like you're on the right track
Regarding people telling you to move on, they do have good intentions. They want you to be happy, and they think that moving on is the path to happiness. Don't let it detract you from the journey that YOU want to be on, just thank them for their thoughts and hold to your path.
