Planet, You are correct. I should be grateful that I am seeing the several time a week. Plenty of my friends works out west an they only see there kids every 28 days and the kids don't forget about them.

ETC, great to hear from you! I need to be a bit more stronger emotionally & not let her negativity effect me. Questioning why I am still attracted to her, because she is not being a very nice person towards me.

Its so challenging doing outdoor activities with 2 boys under 4. I will not let it deter me from trying to create a fun nurturing childhood that I always wanted them to have. Creating and excepting my "new normal"

Read the "legacy of divorce last night"... It should be mandatory reading for every person thinking of procreating. So sad how some people dont consider the effects this will have on our children. Reflecting on how many stable blended family's I know, I cant.

Started feeling sad yesterday about this whole situation. All part of the ride I guess.

Good news is that it will be a sunny weekend to enjoy a motorbike ride in the woods to enjoy the beautiful fall colors!


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.