Glad to hear everything is ok. One goal at a time - good idea about getting your hair done, and the change in clothing style. I've already done the hair, but new clothing is next on my list of things to do for me (when finances allow of course), along with the decluttering/reorganzing at home.

Sounds like you're in a good place mentally and emotionally right now. Keep up the PMA and the GALing and you'll find that life does get easier.

There's a quote one of my FB friends posted a few days ago that really suits everyone on this forum - "You never know how strong you really are until you have to be"

Time does help. I'm finding it a lot easier now when dealing with my H, as most interactions have been more business-like than anything else. I've gotten good at not texting him for anything other than S13 or finances, but I really need to be better at not answering his texts the second they come in.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks