KP- yes I understand what you are saying and I do agree with you I do keep some things from MIL but I believe my MIL will not stab me in the back cause we both on seated down and had a big heart to heart talk about everything and all her real close friends from her child hood; told me that if she says something to heart she really means it and she never goes against her word. And I have been in this family for 13 years and she has never lied to me. I was just sturburn to actually listen to her. For exsample like I told her that when parents tell their kids things at first we don't listen to their suggesttions until its to late so we have to learn from our mistakes and fix our mistakes to improve ourselves. And that is what I'm trying to do at this time I'm still taking it very slow and day by day. And I think I'm doing OK so far and my MIL told me that I had proved her wrong she had told me that she thought that I wouldn't change my ways and she had seen first hand that I'm so much capable on doing this on my own. And she is really proud of me. That made me feel really good. I'm actually so lucky to have a MIL that is willing to help me through this whole thing and to help me to improve myself.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
