I am sorry, I know how hard this is. Always keep in mind that no matter how angry/hurt/sad/broken you feel towards H, you must separate those feelings out when dealing with the kids. You are aware of the impact of D on them and you are worried about the long-term affects; there is no way to remove all of the pain and hurt but if they can see you and H still being kind to each other, not using them as pawns, interacting when the kids leave/come home it will be the best of a horrible situation.
Keep going to your IC and get whatever help you need to get through this. You never know how it will turn it out..
I will try my hardest to separate ose feelings because of them. I will do anything for them. It hurst deep inside but I don't want them to suffer. Will keep getting IC sessions and pray
Me 37 H 37 D9 D6 M9/ T12 ILYBINILWY 05/2013 Asked to S 06/13 Said he wants to S for sure 08/13 Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13) No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)
