It is hard...and its going to take time. But dig in and do the work....its not only the only way to save your M, its the only way to save you.

I would stop asking her to move back in...that's pressure. She's not ready to fix it....so focus on you for now.

And I wouldn't talk about anything regarding the D. What's the benefit? If it gets to that point, let the attorneys handle.

M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13