We have progressed to receiving mail addressed to his new persona. It would appear - this is third hand info - that he is changing his name, I assume legally. Then why it is coming to this address idk, he redirected mail back in May surely by now he would have notified the relevant people of his new details. This correspondence looks like its from the bank.

A friend thought he should let me know what he had heard - he wasn't sure if it would affect legal docs relating to our house sale (if it ever happens!). Something else I now have to deal with.

My head wants to move on, but why does my body react when I get correspondence or hear of the next change in his life. I get that "pang" in my chest and my stomach tightens, and I just feel sooooo.....

Do they ever leave us completely? With all the running, changes and their desire to leave their lives behind, why do they continue (in indirect ways often) to drag us along with them?