I would like to join in here and share a bit of my experience. I confronted h a year ago about A. had evidence, he denied, denied. Finally said it was a friend/relationship he cared about. I asked h to move out. he has been 3 times back home to "work" on the marriage( I allowed it)these returns would last about 2 week. the latest being last july. H wants D. says he is not coming back. I'm in school now and said my focus now is kids and my classes. I have no time for D, but can't stop him. H still continues to lie. That is the part I hate. he goes to city where ow is. when he is there doesn't return d15 phone calls/texts Know it is diesrepctful to me and family. I do not want D. but really may have no choice. I've kept my ring on. Starting to consider if it is time to take it off. old M is over.
Good luck to you(and all of us)DD. This is a hard road
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
