I am sorry, I know how hard this is. Always keep in mind that no matter how angry/hurt/sad/broken you feel towards H, you must separate those feelings out when dealing with the kids. You are aware of the impact of D on them and you are worried about the long-term affects; there is no way to remove all of the pain and hurt but if they can see you and H still being kind to each other, not using them as pawns, interacting when the kids leave/come home it will be the best of a horrible situation.
Keep going to your IC and get whatever help you need to get through this. You never know how it will turn it out..
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
