I decided to give H a choice to either stop the relationship with the other woman and work on this marriage, or leave and start the separation process.
His plan was to stay here until the baby is six months while I raise the kids and clean and cook for him, while he goes out with another woman. This is beyond immoral and hurtful to me.
I understand that I may end up in deep financial trouble living by myself with two kids, but I have to conserve some of my dignity.
He thinks I'm being unfair and doesn't see anything morally wrong with what he is doing to me and our kids. In his head he thinks I'm just trying to keep the boys away from him. It's crazy.
Anyway, this may happen sooner than later. He is not acting normal and I just don't want to be hurt anymore.
