Have you read anything on pursuit and distancing? I know Cadet usually posts things for newcomers to read. It may be a great deal of help with handling some things.
As for telling him what you disliked ,you may consider tabling it from now on. Don't dwell on what ifs, you said it ,now let it go.
Try not to contact him for a bit, allow him his feelings that he shared with you, just don't act on what he said.
Give him some space, and try and get ahold of your reactions to what he may be saying or doing. Take them in, but don't react to them. You may want to say to yourself, I'll react when I am alone. Let him vent, and you just listen. You'll get a chance down the road...
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
