Hey, Jon,

It is extremely difficult to release any control we thought we had... and to give it to God.

We can only control ourselves and that needs to be our focus.

Of course you miss your wife. It is still early in your sitch- everything is raw. LEt yourself feel the pain and then release it. But, one thing I have learned is that neither of you will be the same people on the other side of this. In fact she is evolving and YOU are evolving right now...the question is when you both change into these new people will you be on the same path? Not the same path as before, but a new same path.

Only time will tell. Be patient, try to find the small moments in life to enjoy, GAL when you can, and really try to focus on you!


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.