Originally Posted By: Maritimer
I agree with Pudmuddle, ask the kids what they want to do. If they want to go with there father, let them. I understand how hard it would be but some time away from each other could be a good thing. It could be viewed as a 180 and take him by surprise.[quote]

I have been thinking about it, and when I think of the kids, I know that they will want to go, so I will say ok

[quote]Take that time to do something for your self, what do you want to do but never have time to because of the kids? [quote]

Maybe hang out with friends that I have not seen for a while. Or GAL with my sister

[quote]How about volunteering to serve thanksgiving dinner to the less fortunate? Selfless acts does wonders for the self esteem!


What a great idea to do on thanksgiving. Will look into it. Thank you maritimer


Me 37
H 37
D9
D6
M9/ T12
ILYBINILWY 05/2013
Asked to S 06/13
Said he wants to S for sure 08/13
Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13)
No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)