I don't know if I have the best advice here fmf, but maybe my replying will bump up the thread.
My first thought was, what would the kids want? where would they want to be? And they probably would want both of you there.
I'm not sure, that is a tough one. I haven't even stepped out of my zone to begin thinking of holidays! good grief.
They don't know what's going on yet. But my eldest already said to my MIL that she cannot wait to go there for thanksgiving. That's all she knows, it's always has been this way.
Me 37 H 37 D9 D6 M9/ T12 ILYBINILWY 05/2013 Asked to S 06/13 Said he wants to S for sure 08/13 Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13) No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)
