DD, I agree with what you've said above, but don't look at making an ultimatum as quitting on your marriage. I could easily argue that standing by while your W has an affair is quitting on your marriage and that leaving her "for now" is actually fighting for it. If you believe that marriage is two people joined before God and committed to each other, then tolerating a marriage that is NOT that is disrespecting marriage right? Sometimes to get what you want you have to first go the other way, and this is one of those times. Not telling you to leave her, but you must do something to protect yourself and bring a stop to the cake-eating.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
