My H loves to help people. Feels he has value if he can be of service in some way. Yesterday I had a bit of an emergency and he went above and beyond. ( two words, peri menopause and uh oh)
He was kind and loving and likes to be able to do this. But for me to reciprocate is not his LL, which is hard for me to not do. Like today, he had a migraine and I gave him all the things I thought would make him feel better and he was like "ummm". Lmao!!
I know he is a big physical guy and pretty sure it's his LL. So I touch him when I can.
Any thoughts? When guys say "x" do they really mean "x" all the time? Or are they waiting for us to figure out what they really want? ( girls do this, btw, guys....)
