WAW served me, 2 weeks in, looking for pointers

[MrBond]

You need to tell us more about the additional problems in your M. Really go back and rethink of the things and actions that she did that might have been a hint of something not right in the M. And I'm especially talking about your issues.

The drinking is a big issue and so was the sexting. You seem to really not mention those things as if they're not a big deal. Well let's put it this way...they were a big deal to her so you better put some importance in them.