Wife moved out, won't come back home

[MrBond]

Your list of everything that YOU perceive is HER problem.

I haven't seen you really take responsibility for the things that you may have done to get the two of you into this position. It's not all her fault. How about being completely honest and detail (not just certain instances) how you have contributed to the M breaking down?

Be honest. In a way I can see why your first M didn't work out. If you read and really understand the message of DB/DR, you'll see it's about affecting change within yourself. Pointing out the faults of your W isn't going to help because the only person you can change is yourself.

And for the record, we can tell when someone is trying to minimize their contributions to the relationship failing, so if you want to get some real help in not only getting back your W but also having a truly fulfilling relationship to last a lifetime, you have to be completely honest.